February is a cold month in Ohio so the red sweaters worn in December still work in February. Red and white candles can still be used along with a few branches of greenery. The most important thing both share is they are months where people talk about love.

We love the gifts we received, the special food prepared and in general the feeling of love. December tends to wear people out, but February is a month where we can concentrate on the meaning of love. Many people get married in February and the popular Bible verse about love is read. It is probably something that should be posted in the home and read regularly.

Paul talks about love in the book of Corinthians 13: 4-8. He begins with patient and kind and continues with what love isn’t. It isn’t envious, boastful, self-seeking and is not easily brought to anger. The next is a difficult one. Love doesn’t keep a record of wrong doings. I admit I struggle with patience and remembering the wrong doings. It’s hard not to say, ” I remember when you …..”

I love my family but I admit I sound like a nag when I remind family members to hang up their coats, put their dishes in the dishwasher and to throw their clothes down the clothes shoot. I’m sure that would be considered not patient. I probably fail slow to anger too. I choose to think of myself as being irritated and not angry though. I’ve always heard it’s easier to show kindness with people you don’t live with, for example, your friends and co-workers. I admit I see truth in that statement.

Tomorrow is Ash Wednesday and the first day of lent. I have decided to focus on Paul’s description of love. He says love never fails. Love protects, trusts, hopes and perseveres. I plan to persevere! Happy Valentine’s Day!