February offers more than Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day dominates February, but it is filled with lots more!

February begins with Groundhog Day and Candlemas. Both are on February 2. German immigrants brought the custom of watching to see if a groundhog saw his shadow as a way to predict the coming of spring. In Germany, it was a hedgehog. I only believe the groundhog if he doesn’t see his shadow! (Meaning spring is on its way!) Candlemas has a long history but just think of it as blessing the candles for the coming year. It’s from a time when candles provided light to homes and churches. The month continues with other days to remember, and the entire month is dedicated to learning about Black history.

As soon as the Christmas decorations are removed, the Valentine’s Day decorations go up in every store. As a child, the Valentine’s Day party at school was as special as the Halloween party. The history of the day is a mixture of the Roman holiday Lupercalia and Saint Valentine. Lupercalia was celebrated February 13 -15 when Roman priests dipped animal hides in goat blood and then hit women with the hides to make them more fertile. Sounds terrible. Saint Valentine is known to have married soldiers when it was forbidden. According to the Emperor Claudius, unmarried men made better soldiers, so he outlawed marriage for young men. Valentine was arrested for marrying couples and put to death. Before his death he sent letters to his friends and signed them with, “Remember your Valentine.”

President’s Day is February 16 this year which is remembered by canceling school, mail delivery and other services. I have to ask, how are the presidents remembered on this day?

February 18 is Ash Wednesday which is the beginning of Lent. Many will eliminate favorite foods and bad habits. Spending time in prayer and reading the Bible are both encouraged, Lent is thought to be a dark time, but if one spends more time with God, they are in his light. Just a thought.

Wishing you all a warmer February and a few valentines to brighten your day!

Keeping Thanksgiving!

I don’t rush right to Christmas because Thanksgiving deserves to have its month.

November is a restful month for me. Halloween excitement is past and autumn colors are fading. I don’t like the early darkness, but it does add to the quiet time. I always host Thanksgiving dinner and love it! This November I’m directing a fun holiday show that I wrote for my church. It’s called Joyous Fall. The title is fitting because that’s how I feel about fall.

There are skits about scarecrows, turkeys and women who love to decorate. The decorating women represent me except I don’t go crazy like they do. I admit I have a schedule for decorating. The first of October the Halloween decorations go up and come down on November 1. Pumpkins stay, but scarecrows and turkeys go up. I then relax until Thanksgiving is over. I enjoy the cool weather and blue skies as I clean the garden and protect my roses for the winter. I am still picking roses which is very unusual, so that task awaits. Being outside always brings me closer to God. The beauty surrounds me and I quietly sing his praises. (I don’t have the gift of singing)

I think it’s important to remember the first Thanksgiving and how the Indians and Pilgrims feasted together for days. The Pilgrims would not have survived without the help they received from the Indians. They are a good example of two diverse groups working together. That is definitely something to remember and strive to accomplish today.

Christmas awaits and our show ends with the nativity because fall lasts until December 21. Today I am giving thanks for the people who have worked hard to memorize lines and become the characters I pictured as I wrote the script. To see what I imagined come to life is a wonderful gift. I hope you can relax and enjoy this quiet month and think about your blessings instead of your to do list. That’s my plan!